Category Archives: Choice-Based Life

Prefer a Choice? Or, Being Forced?

Forcing myself to go somewhere, do something, or think a certain way because “I should” leaves me in a place without a substantial direction. Forcing my actions and thoughts…forcing others…forcing the life around me…yea…IF the stars align, then it is … Continue reading

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Keep Going…You Can Do This

For years, I have been struggling with going to sleep at night. During a few day span of not sleeping, I would become sick with a cold or flu, mentally exhausted, and my body was not healing as it normally … Continue reading

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“Purpose Determines Outcome”

We drove by a grocery store parking lot. I caught a glimpse of a shopping cart in the middle of one of the spots. My mind immediately went to “let’s pull over and move it out of the way.” Being … Continue reading

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A Story from “Hey Arnold!”

The boarders assign each other a Secret Santa, and Arnold has to get a present for Mr. Hyunh. He hears his story about his lost daughter Mai, and decides to search the city for her. Arnold attempts to locate Mai … Continue reading

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A Few Keys to Understanding

Here are some important keys to understand ourselves, others, and life that I have experienced to be true: 1st Key There is no point in planning for what you don’t know YOUR energy and the true FACTS from the situation … Continue reading

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Awake My Soul

I see the consequences when I don’t sleep, I see the consequences when I spend my days distracted by TV and movies, and I see the consequences when I try to fit in with all of the people that surround … Continue reading

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Adding the Extra Step

– Allow myself to think how I naturally do in every situation – – Allow myself to feel how I naturally do in every situation – If I lived like this and only this, my actions would end up┬ábased on … Continue reading

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Relationships

I have been listening to The Civil Wars a lot recently and their song “Poison & Wine” depicts every long-term relationship I have shared with a woman and almost all of the long-term relationships I have observed through my friends. … Continue reading

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